Below is a note I wrote myself in the past once when I was completely heartbroken. That day I decided to be my own cheerleader and wrote this to myself. Found it on my phone and posting it here today for anyone who needs to hear these words. Love yourself, be your own cheerleader!!

Don’t feel bad about today. Today is proof that you are still a nice person and very much capable of love. Yes you do deserve happiness but then see how far you have come where now you are able to see things clearly. Don’t waste your time checking Instagram , Facebook or WhatsApp. There is no need to make Zuckerberg any richer he already has too much money. Just take a chill pill and relax. Accept the reality, it’s better to accept reality now than to continue an illusion. It really doesn’t matter. God ultimately will give you what you desire. If not this soul, then a different soul will give you love you desire for sure very soon. But you have to make the space for, you have to make space for true love to find you, otherwise true love might be nearby but then think you are not available and move aside or just move on. No one can treat you badly unless you allow them. The control is in your hands, because god is inside you. Your gut feeling that guides you is the god living inside you telling you in advance to do the right thing. If you keep ignoring then it will stop advising like the best friend that would not stop loving you but stop advising you because they feel you won’t listen anyway. But instead imagine if you take your intuition seriously, you can walk away from useless things very easily. Do not spend money trying to find out what is in someone’s mind, do not try spending money trying to find out what the future holds. Future holds something happy for sure, but be ready to be in awe of it as opposed to being scared of it and trying to know in advance so you could prevent some pain. Instead let things unfold the way they should. Whatever is supposed to be with you will be with you anyways. So make that California trip, make that Arizona trip, make that Canada trip, make that India trip. Live your best life. There is literally nothing stopping you from doing that. All your restrictions are mostly what you have put on yourself. Imagine living your best life doing whatever you feel like whenever you feel like. Imagine not having to answer anyone. Imagine just living peacefully where you can chill out and not have to worry about things that you can’t control. Imagine a day without useless thinking. Give your brain a rest it deserves it.